Spillin Mai Tea

Houseplant Hustle

From Soil to Style: Transferring your Alocasia to LECA 🌿

Ready to ditch the dirt and give your Alocasia a glow-up? Transferring your plant baby from soil to LECA (Lightweight Expanded Clay Aggregate) is not just satisfying, it’s a whole vibe. Here’s how I made the switch, step by step: 1. Prep your LECA Balls Before starting, rinse your LECA balls thoroughly until the water runs… Continue reading From Soil to Style: Transferring your Alocasia to LECA 🌿

Mommy Jams & Mood Shifts

Life is Good (and this song proves it)

🎵 Now Playing: Life Is Good by Forrest FrankThis isn't just a song, it's a mood reset. Forrest Frank brings sunshine with every track on his Child of God album. Think beach worship meets chill backyard BBQ vibes. Each song carries its own soul, but together they're a reminder that faith and good vibes can go hand-in-hand.… Continue reading Life is Good (and this song proves it)

Zoomies in Human Form

Mai Heart, His Plan, Their Lives

We weren't exactly trying, but we weren't protecting either. Month after month passed, and nothing. Not even a scare. Not even a maybe. Just a quiet kind of heartache that settled deeper each time. I remember watching the world around me bloom with pregnancies. Social media announcements. New baby smells. Parents on the news doing… Continue reading Mai Heart, His Plan, Their Lives

Marriage is Dope

Messy. Redeemed. Deeply Rooted.

2016. It was the year that everything changed. The year our marriage nearly collapsed under the weight of everything we weren't saying out loud. We were stretched thin- a 2yo, pregnancy turned early labor, sleepless nights, hidden disappointments, and having a marriage so strained we barely recognized ourselves. We became strangers, not partners, looking at… Continue reading Messy. Redeemed. Deeply Rooted.

Zoomies in Human Form

Colston: Our Full Circle Moment

By the time Colston came into the world, we weren't just surviving, we were certain. Certain that our marriage could weather storms. Certain that we were growing, not breaking. Certain that Love, when fought for, can be rebuilt even stronger. His arrival didn't just complete our family, it confirmed it. He was our first full-term… Continue reading Colston: Our Full Circle Moment

Zoomies in Human Form

Preston: A Boy Born in a Storm, Yet Filled with Light

Preston, our middle child. He came into the world early, too early, during a season when everything in our marriage felt fragile, broken, and stretched thin. He was born a preemie, but even then, he didn't cry much. He just.. was. Peaceful. Gentle. Calm. Almost like he knew we didn't have room for more chaos.… Continue reading Preston: A Boy Born in a Storm, Yet Filled with Light

Zoomies in Human Form

Greyson: Our First, Our Miracle

Before he had a name, before we even held him in our arms - Greyson was Prayed for. We waited years, walked through heartache after heartache, and questioned if we'd ever be parents. And then God, in His perfect timing, gave us our Miracle. Our firstborn. Our "Grey-boy". Greyson came into this world with the… Continue reading Greyson: Our First, Our Miracle

Marriage is Dope

Homey – Lover – Friend

We started in the driveway - long conversations about nothing important, awkward chuckles, and slow beginnings that didn't need to be anything more than they were. No pressure, just presence. What began as two acquaintances passing time turned into the foundation of everything we didn't yet know we'd need. Kevin is quiet, measured, and always… Continue reading Homey – Lover – Friend